Hypersexuality Test — Find Out Where You Stand
Tests:
For Women |
For Men |
Is My Partner Hypersexual?
You're Asking the Right Question
If you found this page, you already know something feels off. Maybe you've been trying to control a behavior that keeps pulling you back, or maybe someone you care about is showing signs you can't ignore anymore. Either way, the fact that you're here matters.
I'm not going to tell you you're an addict. That's not what these quizzes are for. They're a private, honest look at patterns — the kind of patterns that are easier to see when someone asks you the right questions. No one will see your answers. There's no signup. You answer, you get your results, and you decide what to do next.
I've spent over 20 years working with people in exactly the place you're in right now. Most of them started just like this — searching, wondering, not sure what to call it yet. That's fine. You don't need a label. You just need to know where you stand.
Sex Addiction Quiz for Women
This quiz looks at sexual compulsivity from a woman's perspective — things like desperation for sexual connection, choosing partners you know aren't right, guilt around sexual behavior, and compulsive patterns you can't seem to break. Takes 2-3 minutes. Scored instantly.
Take the Women's Quiz
Porn Addiction Quiz for Men
Focused on porn use and its effects — desensitization, hiding your search history, performance issues with a real partner, relationships damaged or threatened, and the inability to moderate even when you can see the harm. Takes 3-5 minutes. Scored instantly.
Take the Men's Quiz
Is Your Partner Struggling with Sex or Porn Addiction? (20 Questions)
This isn't a scored quiz — it's a set of reflection questions to help you recognize signs of sexual compulsivity in someone you're close to. Covers secrecy, behavioral changes, shifts in your sexual relationship, and financial red flags. If several of these resonate, trust what you're seeing.
Take the Partner Assessment
Your Privacy, Your Pace
Everything here is confidential. No data is stored. No one sees your results but you. Whatever you learn from these quizzes, the next step is just a conversation — 30 minutes, no charge, no pressure.
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Common Questions About These Quizzes
Am I hypersexual, or do I just have a high sex drive?
Wanting sex often isn't, on its own, a sign of anything. Hypersexuality is less about how much and more about whether you're in control of it: whether you've tried to cut back and couldn't, whether it's escalating, whether you're hiding it, or whether it's costing you something that matters — a relationship, your work, your own peace of mind. The quizzes ask about those patterns, not frequency. Taking one won't give you a label, but it will show you where your own answers land.
Do these quizzes diagnose sex or porn addiction?
No. These are self-reflection tools, not a clinical diagnosis. They're built to help you see your own patterns clearly enough to decide what to do next.
Do I need to sign up to take a quiz?
No signup and no account — you answer the questions and see your results straight away.