Sex Addiction, the Tragic Consequences of Not Getting Help by George Collins, MA

This video tells the story of a sex addict who desperately needed help, put it off and the tragic consequences of his delay seeking treatment. This story is a great lesson for anyone suffering from any sort of addiction but specifically sex addiction. DON’T WAIT! You Deserve Better.


I talk to men every day who wish they called sooner. So many men come to me after their wife or a family member discovers their porn problem, or they get arrested for soliciting prostitutes and their wife left and took the kids.


In my book Breaking the Cycle, Free Yourself From Sex Addiction, Porn Compulsion and Shame, I talk about Bob, a very successful businessman, husband, and father – and a porn addict who also delayed getting help. His 10 year old daughter caught him masturbating just as he ejaculated to a hardcore pornographic movie on his computer screen. I tell Bob’s story below, but before you read it WATCH this video and see what happened to this wonderful man who didn’t get help sooner.

Bob also delayed treatment. Hidden away in his home office, or so he thought, Bob pulled down his sweat pants so his genitals were exposed. He moved into just the right position in the chair and began his very familiar ritual of masturbating to these types of images and videos. He had seen hundreds over the years. His wife had caught him three times, and the last time she had said that the next time would be “it” for their marriage. Bob had tried to stop, but didn’t. So here he was again, thinking of nothing else but the images on the screen.


On his monitor was a video of a young woman being forcefully held down and sodomized by three men in masks. Although Bob had never done this in real life (and most likely never would), watching domination is what got him the most turned on. His right hand in motion, Bob got more and more excited. He was lost. Gone. And he didn’t hear the door start to open. Bob usually double-checked the lock on the door, and, like most addicts, he lived with the illusion that he would never slip up. But this time he was in such a hurry to do what he needed and get back to the game that he thought the door was locked. It wasn’t.


Just as Bob began to climax, his ten-year-old daughter opened the door and stood there, motionless, shocked, and terrified at the sight of her father ejaculating to the horrendous images on the computer monitor. Melanie ran screaming to her mother.


Bob no longer lives at that house.


Stop the bullshit and reach out for help. Call SOMEONE. If you want, I’m here for you. I was where you are and I can help. Compulsion Solutions is sex addicts for sex addicts and WE CAN HELP. 


George Collins is the author of the best seller on sex addiction, “Breaking the Cycle: Free Yourself from Sex Addiction, Porn Obsession, and Shame” and is the founder and director of Compulsion Solutions.  As a recovering sex addict, he didn’t just go to college and read about sexually compulsive behavior. He lived “the life” and got over it.


 George and his team practice from their offices in Walnut Creek, California in person and via phone with men and women from all over the world who are suffering from the results of sexually compulsive behavior. They also offer counseling and support for wives and partners. As a recognized expert, he’s appeared as a guest on local, national, and international radio and television shows.

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