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Setting Up A Dialogue Practice
In my practice, if I received a dollar for each time I heard from my clients, “I was too busy to write this week,” I would be a wealthy man. Like many things that are actually good for us, journaling or dialoguing often get put aside or buried by the busyness of life. Somehow putting […]
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Dopamine and Your Porn Addiction
There’s a lot of talk about how the dopamine receptors in your brain influence addictive behavior. Does dopamine feed addiction? What role does dopamine play when it comes to your brain and pornography? Here’s what you need to know: 1. Dopamine itself is not actually addictive. Contrary to popular belief, dopamine is not actually addictive […]
Read MoreOvercoming Sex Addiction
A NOTE FROM GEORGE ON "S" GROUPS Thirty years ago I staggered into a Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA) meeting in Walnut Creek, California. I had my choice of Sexaholics Anonymous (SA), Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA), or SLAA. I chose SLAA because it was local and there were women in attendance. (I wanted to […]
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Does Admitting My Sex Addiction Make Me a Loser?
Not too long ago, I was asked the following question by one of the men I work with: “Do I have to always remind myself that I'm a loser because of my addiction?” I admit I was taken aback by this question. So much so that I feel it's important to address it to a […]
Read More5 Shocking Porn Truths That May Send You Running For Help
When you’re at work, at the gym, the subway, on an airplane, look around, there are most likely people nearby who need porn addiction help. They could be friends, co-workers, relatives, or even your teenage children. And what about you? Are you sure you don’t need porn addiction therapy? Here are a few shocking truths […]
Read More3 Steps to Help Purge the Urge
When a Dance is More than a Dance If you’ve been going through our video course, you already know that mind doesn’t like to change. Even though I’ve been a sexual addiction counselor for 20 years helping guys like you break free of their sexual compulsive behaviors, I’m still a man and I still get […]
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4 Questions You May Be Asking About Sex Addiction
Susan is wondering what happened to her sex life. She and her husband were so connected at the beginning of their relationship, but now, after a couple of years together, they only have sex about once every two months. And when they do, she is the initiator. She knew that her husband was spending hours […]
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It Can Be Hard To Talk About Sex Addiction
If you suspect sex addiction is an issue in your relationship, it might be hard to even ask someone about it, if you don't feel you can you openly discuss S-E-X. Sex continues to be the news in some surprising and shocking ways. And now it’s being characterized as being potentially addictive. From the reported […]
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The Roller Coaster of Addiction
Get more information about the roller coaster of addiction and find the help with porn addiction and sex addiction you need at Neulia Compulsion Solutions.
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Regret, Shame, Compassion & Self-Forgiveness
Facing any addiction is a tough business. Facing sex addiction or porn addictions can bring with it waves of shame, of regret. But there can be a gift in this. Learning to work with the shame, the regret, can lead to a deeper understanding of compassion and self-forgiveness. We all have parts of ourselves that […]
Read MorePorn at Work is Costing You Money and Opportunities
Porn addiction is becoming a major problem at work. Technology is a mission critical tool for both work and pleasure and the lines are blurring every day. Gone are the days when your work phone was actually located at work. More and more of my clients are struggling with porn addiction or compulsion, even under […]
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What Can the Robert Kraft Prostitution Scandal Teach Us About Addictive Behavior?
Let’s state something important right up front: we have no idea if Robert Kraft is a sex addict or any other kind of addict. We don’t personally know the man, and it’s not our place to diagnose anyone from afar. However, his story being in the news right now does give us a unique opportunity […]
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