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Valentine's Day & Coming To Terms With Your Partner's Porn Or Sex Addiction
Valentine's day can be the day that you finally face the truth of your partner's porn addiction or sex addiction.
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7 Reassurances For The Partner Of A Sex Or Porn Addict
We offer these reassurances to you with the intention that they help soothe your immediate pain — realizing that they are not going to solve the problem of your sex addict partner’s acting out behaviors. He will need to seek help and support. You may very well need to seek help and support as […]
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Can You Rebuild Your Relationship If Your Partner Is A Sex Addict?
Many partners of sex addicts have asked me “Was our entire life a lie?” or “Why have I stayed in this relationship as long as I have?” I believe that a crucial part of recovery and self-growth is understanding what you are working toward. Feeling some sense of positivity is crucial for your own survival […]
Read MoreDo You Compare Yourself To The "Perfect" Women Your Partner Was Acting Out With?
One of the hardest things the partner of a sex addict or a porn addict has to deal with are her feelings of having to "compete" with her partner's fantasy ideal. We can tell her that her partner's acting out behavior doesn't have anything to do with her — and we do say that. But […]
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Let's Look At The Issue Of Betrayal
“A Friend Stabs You In The Front” Oscar Wilde In reflecting on this view of betrayal from Oscar Wilde, I am struck by the very nature of betrayal — disloyalty that catches you unaware and stabs you in the back. This is the betrayal that can only be done by a trusted person; someone that you […]
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Living With Someone Who Does Not Seem Interested In YOU?
I have a few hard questions for you to think about: Are you in a relationship that is not healthy for you? Are you scared of intimacy or of being alone? (Maybe you’re scared of both.) Do you believe that deep down you are really a terribly flawed human being who doesn’t deserve to be […]
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Dealing With SEX With My Sexually Addicted Partner
A BIG question that I often hear from women who are in relationship with a sex addict is: “How do I deal with sex while my partner is recovering from his sex addiction?” There are probably a lot of questions swirling in your head right now. It’s a lot to deal with. You may be […]
Read MorePartner to a Sex Addict? It's NOT Your Fault (No Matter What Michelle Duggar Says)
Michelle Duggar, the matriarch of “19 Kids and Counting” fame recently released a statement about her son that left many people scratching their heads. We can never know what someone is truly thinking, but her statement appears to be blaming her daughter-in-law for the sex and porn addiction struggles her son Josh is currently going […]
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Can Rihanna Help Wives of Sex Addicts?
Rihanna was named by Time Magazine as one of the 100 Most Influential people on the planet. She's stated that she doesn't want to be a role model, but … well, she's on the list, so she's clearly "influential." There have been continuing reports that she may be rekindling her relationship with Chris Brown despite […]
Read More3 Signs Your Spouse Suffers From Sex Addiction
If you think about it there is a lot that can go wrong in a marriage. Divorce rates are at the highest point they’ve ever been. Something that people don’t often realize is that sex addiction can cause marital distress, and eventually divorce, if it isn’t treated. Here are three ways to find out if […]
Read MoreI Married A Sex Addict
Sex sells. I know this first hand. I modeled for bikini calendars. I did photo shoots in lingerie and tiny bikinis to sell men's magazines. I worked at promotional events in barely-there, cleavage-showing outfits in order to attract male clientele. I was that woman in the magazines that boyfriends and husbands would lust after. I […]
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