She became one of the most-searched names in adult film — then walked away and said she'd erase it all if she could. This is Lana Rhoades' story. The short version: Why she entered the industry — and how fast she rose Why she now wants her past erased What her story reveals about porn […]
Is sex Addiction (or porn Addiction) a mental illness? This is a question that often stirs up quite a bit of debate and curiosity. Are sex addiction and porn addiction real mental illnesses, or are they just excuses for certain behaviors? Let's break it down. What are Sex and Porn Addiction? Sex addiction, sometimes referred […]
As a sex addiction counselor, my journey has been one of enlightenment and breaking down stereotypes surrounding the complex issue of sex addiction. One of the most significant misconceptions I encounter daily is the belief that sex addiction is solely about the act of sex. In reality, it is a multifaceted issue rooted in deeper […]
Sex addiction has been a topic of debate for years, often sparking controversy and confusion. Is it a real condition, or merely an excuse for certain behaviors? In a revealing interview with George Collins, featured in The Daily Mail, we gain valuable insights into this complex issue. Sex addiction, like other forms of addiction, is […]
If you're a parent or someone who cares about kids in this digital age, you might be wondering about a topic that's become increasingly relevant – when are kids first exposed to porn in today's world? It's a question that many of us are grappling with, so let's dive in and explore this issue. Screen […]
In today's increasingly open society, discussions about various aspects of human behavior have become more prevalent. One such topic is sex addiction, a term that has gained attention due to its portrayal in media and entertainment. But how common is sex addiction, really? Is it a legitimate psychological condition or a misunderstood concept? Understanding Sex […]
Understanding the Journey to Recovery Sex addiction, also known as hypersexuality or compulsive sexual behavior, is a challenging and often misunderstood issue that affects individuals from all walks of life. It can lead to severe consequences, damaging relationships, self-esteem, and overall well-being. Many people wonder if a sex addict can ever change and break free […]
Sexuality is a complex and deeply personal aspect of human life. In recent years, the term "sex addiction" has gained attention and sparked both curiosity and controversy. However, it is essential to separate fact from fiction and dispel some common misconceptions surrounding this concept. Sex Addiction is NOT simply a high sex drive: One of […]
The short answer: there's no single "addiction gene," but genetics can raise your risk. Here's what the research actually shows — and why it's not your destiny. Is Sex Addiction Hereditary? The Short Answer Sexuality is a complex aspect of human behavior, with a wide range of variations and expressions. While most individuals experience a […]
Dealing with a porn addiction can be an overwhelming and isolating experience. Often, individuals struggling with this addiction may feel alone, ashamed, and unsure of how to seek help. There is a unique benefit in finding someone who has walked a similar path and overcome their own porn addiction. Shared Understanding and Empathy A person […]
It’s possible to build an even stronger relationship if sex addiction or porn addiction has impacted your relationship. But how? One skill, a capacity that can be developed is undefended honesty. This is a form of honesty that builds on the truth that’s been revealed in the disclosure of your sexually compulsive behavior. This kind […]
After you’ve gained some skills that help you become aware of the urge to act out, you can start to unravel the inner mechanism, which is your inner addict. But how exactly do you do that? There has to be a next step, and it's not enough to just notice what’s happening. You need action […]
Theodore Roosevelt once said, “If you could kick the person in the pants responsible for most of your trouble, you wouldn't sit for a month.” When I look back at my life when I was acting out, when my porn addiction was totally out of control, my life was a soap opera and I was […]
When you’re a porn addict or a sex addict in the throes of feeling an urge to act out, you can lose sight of something very important — the cost. Your addiction might say to you, “Remember how good you feel when you act out? I can help you feel great. I can help you […]
Like many men, I thought my pornography sexual addiction was a dirty little secret known only to me. However, my wife started picking up on the “signs,” such as how I was not really “there” in our relationship, how I frequently had trouble “finishing” during sex, and how I had a general lack of interest […]
I wake up every day with good intentions. I tell myself I won't look at porn. I tell myself I can quit doing this; but by mid-day, I've already visited my favorite sites three times. I feel like I can't stop myself, and that powerlessness is frightening. Does this mean I might be a sex […]
It took losing two wives before I finally admitted to myself that my use of porn was a serious problem. I finally realized I that porn and masturbation was running my life. That’s when I took the very big step (for me at the time) of calling a therapist to help me. How did […]
All guys do it, right? It doesn't mean you have a problem. It's not an addiction, is it? Why can't I watch a little porn? The problem for some men is that sex is an addictive substance, similar to alcohol and drugs. Think of it in terms of social drinkers vs. alcoholics: one can […]
Maybe porn stopped working. You need more of it, or something further out than you used to need, and it still doesn't land the way it once did — and some part of you is more unsettled by that than by the habit itself. Or maybe you've already said it. I'm done. You've said it […]
Can “looking” or ogling be a symptom of your sex compulsion? Does looking trigger you into deep fantasy leading to compulsive sexual thoughts that won’t stop until you act out? Often times “ogling” is a step in the wrong direction for sex addicts, leading to other unhealthy sexual behavior. It hurts spouses too - the […]