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Unveiling the Layers: Sex Addiction is Not About Sex

As a sex addiction counselor, my journey has been one of enlightenment and breaking down stereotypes surrounding the complex issue of sex addiction. One of the most significant misconceptions I encounter daily is the belief that sex addiction is solely about the act of sex. In reality, it is a multifaceted issue rooted in deeper […]
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Exploring the Reality of Sex Addiction: Insights from George Collins' Interview

Sex addiction has been a topic of debate for years, often sparking controversy and confusion. Is it a real condition, or merely an excuse for certain behaviors? In a revealing interview with George Collins, featured in The Daily Mail, we gain valuable insights into this complex issue. Sex addiction, like other forms of addiction, is […]
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Screen Time and Growing Up: When Are Kids First Exposed to Porn in Today's World?

If you're a parent or someone who cares about kids in this digital age, you might be wondering about a topic that's become increasingly relevant – when are kids first exposed to porn in today's world? It's a question that many of us are grappling with, so let's dive in and explore this issue. Screen […]
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Unveiling the Truth: How Common is Sex Addiction?

In today's increasingly open society, discussions about various aspects of human behavior have become more prevalent. One such topic is sex addiction, a term that has gained attention due to its portrayal in media and entertainment. But how common is sex addiction, really? Is it a legitimate psychological condition or a misunderstood concept? Understanding Sex […]
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Can a Sex Addict Ever Change?

Understanding the Journey to Recovery Sex addiction, also known as hypersexuality or compulsive sexual behavior, is a challenging and often misunderstood issue that affects individuals from all walks of life. It can lead to severe consequences, damaging relationships, self-esteem, and overall well-being. Many people wonder if a sex addict can ever change and break free […]
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Debunking Misconceptions: What Sex Addiction Is NOT

Sexuality is a complex and deeply personal aspect of human life. In recent years, the term "sex addiction" has gained attention and sparked both curiosity and controversy. However, it is essential to separate fact from fiction and dispel some common misconceptions surrounding this concept. Sex Addiction is NOT simply a high sex drive: One of […]
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Is Sex Addiction Hereditary?

Unraveling the Genetic Factors Behind Compulsive Sexual Behavior Sexuality is a complex aspect of human behavior, with a wide range of variations and expressions. While most individuals experience a healthy and balanced approach to their sexual desires, others may struggle with compulsive sexual behavior known as sex addiction. The nature versus nurture debate has long […]
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Why You Need Someone Who's Been THROUGH Porn Addiction to Help You with Your Porn Addiction

Dealing with a porn addiction can be an overwhelming and isolating experience. Often, individuals struggling with this addiction may feel alone, ashamed, and unsure of how to seek help. There is a unique benefit in finding someone who has walked a similar path and overcome their own porn addiction. Shared Understanding and Empathy A person […]
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Navigating Intimacy in Recovery: Sex Addiction and Relationships

Recovering from sex addiction is a complex and challenging journey, and one aspect that often requires special attention is navigating intimacy in relationships. Intimacy involves emotional closeness, vulnerability, and a deep connection with another person. However, sex addiction can significantly impact a person's ability to develop and maintain healthy intimate relationships. As a sexual addiction […]
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Breaking the Stigma: Female Sex Addiction and Seeking Help

As a sexual addiction therapist, I have seen firsthand the stigma and shame that often surround female sex addiction. It can be challenging for women to seek help for this issue due to the fear of judgment and misunderstanding from others. However, it is essential to break down these barriers and create a safe and […]
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Understanding Female Sex Addiction: Causes and Symptoms

Female sex addiction is a complex issue that is often misunderstood and stigmatized. It is important to understand the causes and symptoms of female sex addiction in order to provide appropriate treatment and support. Causes of Female Sex Addiction Sex addiction is a complex issue that can be caused by a variety of factors. Sometimes […]
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I resolved to quit porn in 2023, but I’m already failing

If you're reading this, you may have made the resolution to quit watching porn in 2023, but you're already struggling to keep that promise to yourself. You're not alone. Porn addiction is a real and growing problem, and it can be incredibly difficult to break free from. But it's not impossible. First, it's important to […]
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UNDEFENDED HONESTY

It’s possible to build an even stronger relationship if sex addiction or porn addiction has impacted your relationship. But how? One skill, a capacity that can be developed is undefended honesty. This is a form of honesty that builds on the truth that’s been revealed in the disclosure of your sexually compulsive behavior.  This kind […]
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React or Respond? 

React or respond? These are two very different things, so what’s the difference between the two? A reaction is tied to an emotion. You feel something and then you react, which is what creates an immediate external reaction. This might be in the form of anger, lashing out, even freezing up and running away. First, […]
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Taking Ownership of Your Life

If you're struggling with pornography addiction, it's time to get the help and support you need. Our team at Neulia Compulsion Solutions can provide you with the resources and therapy you need to overcome your addiction and regain control of your life. Don't let porn addiction keep you from living the life you deserve — […]
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CAN I STOP THE PULL OF PORN?

Many men desperately want to stop the pull of porn. They want to know “Can I stop? If so, how?” Many of the guys who call mention that they’ve tried to stop, but haven't been able to. So is there a secret? Can you actually get rid of this nagging temptation? At Compulsion Solutions, we […]
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Pause, Then Replace

PAUSE, THEN REPLACE You can't just remove your sexual acting out behavior. Yes, you can stop the behavior for a while, but just stopping doesn’t lead to lasting change. That’s because you can’t just remove something and expect it to stay gone. You need to replace it. You need to replace, not just temporarily distract. […]
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Carry-On Only, Please!

Your acting out is a symptom — a symptom of a bigger issue. If you only focus on stopping behavior, you don’t get to the root of the problem, and it will continue. You might be able to control your porn addiction for a while — what has been called “white knuckling” — but what’s […]
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KNOWLEDGE + ACTION = RECOVERY

After you’ve gained some skills that help you become aware of the urge to act out, you can start to unravel the inner mechanism, which is your inner addict. But how exactly do you do that? There has to be a next step, and it's not enough to just notice what’s happening. You need action […]
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Is Porn an Intimacy Killer?

Watching porn gives you an unrealistic view of sex. Why is that? It's unlikely that the person you’re in an actual relationship with is going to look like the person you see on the screen. What you see is manipulated — there’s lighting and photoshopping taking place, and so many other things that they can […]
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