Comments for George Collins, M.A.
George, you convinced me that my behavior was never the "real me," it was my "false self." A coping strategy for deep rooted pain. I learned to stop, to forgive myself, and to love myself. To see myself for who I really am. My family and I are forever grateful. Thank You My Friend. —Pete
George – Words can’t express how much your counseling, guidance, and sensitivity has helped me come to terms with myself. I feel you have (we have) unlocked some more potential in me, helping me to become a better human being. I will always be indebted to you for the gentle way you’ve guided me on the right path to healthier living. Thanks for your understanding. —Steve
George, thank you so much for the "real life" that I've experienced since seeing you. I'm glad I didn't listen to my "friends," who said that it was ridiculous to fly up from L.A. to the Bay Area for weekly counseling sessions. I, actually, figured out that I've saved a bunch of money (considering what it cost for my addictive lifestyle). Thanks to our work my business is booming again and my wife and I are finally realizing what intimacy is all about. It surely isn't about high end prostitutes. Intimacy: into-me-you-see. I'll never forget the moment you told me that. A light bulb went off. Hey, I still do get addictive impulses but, thanks to you, I know what to do about them. What a miracle! Thank you George. — In gratitude, Cary
Dear George — Of all the many people I have had the pleasure to know in this life, you are very special. By your kindness, understanding, and ability to do such good healing work, you have helped me so much. For this I am grateful. I will never forget you and the work we have done together. — John
George, you've allowed me to seek out a new life and new civilizations. I can now go where no man has gone before.... Oh, sorry that's James T. Kirk from Star Trek. Just allowing my creative side to come-out-of-the-closet so to speak has given me a chance at a career I never would have dreamed of. My inner "little Boy" has playmates and they all play fair. I owe you a great deal of gratitude for allowing me to believe in myself... and loving myself. — Fred
George, You said that, if I paid attention and did the
work, that I would have no alternative but to, once and for all, face myself
eye to eye. Done. And, as a result I find that I am finally accepting myself
fully...forgiving myself...the heart holding me...my (historic) mind
stepping aside...more joy...less pain...more hope and resolve...less regret
and worry. Living...loving...Ahhh...Yes................
With love my friend, Peter
George, It feels very good to "speak" to you (via email). I miss
our male intimacy and the laughter and the lessons of our time together.
It's very reassuring to have you there. I extend my love and thanks for the
remarkable help you gave me. I SEE the world in a new way because of you
and, I know, a growing self love and joy in my life. Damon
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Comments for Paldrom Collins
Paldrom, I don't even quite know how it is you do it — but you have helped me open a door to peace, a door to a joy in the present moment — and all in the midst of great change, sometimes in the chaos of life swirling around me. The whole process has been unfamiliar and surprising. And it's also felt like I've known how to do this all along. What a beautiful person you are. I'm so glad you've come into my life. — Kim
Paldrom, Words could never describe the invaluable insights that you openly share. You offer specific tools like an instruction manual to use our minds in a beneficial way. I am deeply grateful for your wisdom and presence. — Maria
Comments for James Gallegos
Thank you for your ability to match my energy, and your personableness and
humor that you bring to your job....very much appreciated. —Archie
James, as I told you recently, you have been supportive,
non-judgmental, insightful, sometimes even funny, and always instrumental in
my ability to see things in a new way and to begin the process of
transformation. I also appreciate the fact that you've been where I am now
and are further along the path, keeping me ON it and helping me along.
Thanks so much. —Bill
James, gratitude is not a quality I have had much in my life so far and
I find myself awakening to it. I feel gratitude for you holding the space
for me to be whoever I am in the moment. I feel gratitude for you dedicating
your work to walking with others in this affliction that has caused you
(yourself) so much suffering. I want to tell you that you are a pioneer. I
think, at this point, I am just an intelligent and (driven by truth) mascot —Aden
I was just reflecting on my new life and the lack of pull in dangerous
directions. I have you, largely (almost entirely), to thank for that. I
really appreciate all your help and understanding. Worth every penny. Just
the fact that you're on the earth is a blessing. I'm glad of what you went
through to get where you are. Keep on doing what you're doing because you're
helping people. —Jack
James I have lived with this problem for many years. I have not met
anyone
who has had the understanding that you have. I have liked your
approach so
far very much and I am keen to continue. —Ian
Good afternoon, you crossed my mind today as I took my son and
daughter to soccer practice, then swimming, then the mall. I just
browsed through my wallet and counted $262, and felt so good about the
fact that this money is for mothers day presents. Felt good to "feel"
what it may have been like if I used it for other purposes.
—Steven
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Comments from Couples
George and Paldrom, Thank you for being there and teaching us about love.
We cannot express our feelings of gratitude. — Love, Tom and Barbara
George and Paldrom, I wanted to give (you both) special thanks for all
that you have guided us through over the course of the past eight months or
so. The care and support we have received is immeasurable and we are truly
grateful to you.
— Susan
Comments from Spouses
I debated for a long time if I should send this to you. I wrote it for me, not to share with you, but when I was done, I thought that maybe it would be good for you to read it. So here is is... Read Entire Letter from a Client's Wife to her Husband