When His Therapy Feels Like It’s Re-Victimizing You

When His Therapy Feels Like It’s Re-Victimizing You

  The partners of sex and porn addicts do not always have an easy road ahead of them. Often, an unevenness can begin to develop almost immediately where “his progress,” “his work,” or “his addiction,” can begin to take precedence…

Can I Masturbate During Recovery?

Can I Masturbate During Recovery?

One of the most common questions or concerns for the men I see in recovery for sex and porn addiction centers on masturbation. Can I masturbate during recovery? Will this set me back? How can I tell the difference between…

Sex and Intimacy: Are They the Same?

Sex and Intimacy: Are They the Same?

  A recently published article opined that the reason fewer and fewer men are interested in marriage or long-term relationships is because they have easy access to sex through text messages, dating apps, and streaming internet porn. In other words,…

How to Quit Porn: 4 Steps To Recovery

How to Quit Porn: 4 Steps To Recovery

Trying to figure out how to quit porn? Recovery from an addiction to sex or pornography is much more like a marathon rather than a sprint. Much will be required of and from you in your pursuit of sobriety. Recovery…

Dealing with Withdrawal Symptoms of Sex Addiction

Dealing with Withdrawal Symptoms of Sex Addiction

Attempting to stop your compulsive sexual behavior requires a non-simple truth—the need to become comfortable with feeling uncomfortable. Once you have acknowledged you have a sex addiction, and made the decision to get help, you need to prepare yourself for…

Your Inner Sex Addict is Broadcasting Fake News

Your Inner Sex Addict is Broadcasting Fake News

Your inner sex addict is broadcasting “fake news”   Fake news—or a hoax—is making, well, news, a lot these days and has become a buzzword representing misrepresentation and falsehoods. Fake news is written and published with the intent to mislead…

Sex Addiction or Porn Addiction: You Are Not Alone

Sex Addiction or Porn Addiction: You Are Not Alone

A key deterrent in your getting help in recovery from compulsive sexual behavior is the feeling that you’re alone in this battle. This belief leads to further isolation, further procrastination in getting help, and further suffering from sex addiction. If you’ve…

Depression and Sex Addiction

Depression and Sex Addiction

The old adage, what comes first, the chicken or the egg? When it comes to the symbiotic relationship between depression and sex addiction, it is often difficult to determine which causes which. When working with people who struggle with compulsive…

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